Gary, May I wish the absolute best for you in your life going forward. I have not seen the Forum since March, when my Loving Wife of 43 years (also a young 61) passed on from cancer so I can understand your pain. A great therapy for me was to spend an enormous amount of time producing a three volume DVD set for family and friends with all I could gather on her wonderful lifetime. In addition a local Park she was involved with dedicated a 1/4 acre on South side of the Main Building as "Donna's Reflection Garden" in her memory. Supported by her friends and family this has filled the rest of my time and I know she would love it.