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Title: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Martin X. Moleski, SJ on May 20, 2011, 06:52:45 AM
The purpose of the TIGHAR Forum is to pool the resources of its participants, share information, and allow participants to explore the strengths and weaknesses of each other's arguments.

The purpose of this thread is to develop some rough-and-ready guidelines for civil discourse in the Forum.  Suggestions and criticisms most welcome.  I or other moderators of the Forum will update this lead post periodically to help participants understand the kinds of expectations we have for them.

Please use your full name in your User Profile.  Here is a tutorial on how to make that change. (http://tighar.org/smf/index.php/topic,379.msg3950.html#msg3950)  This is not an anonymous forum.  We expect posters to take personal responsibility for the views that they express here.  If for some reason you find this too onerous, please send an e-mail to webmaster@tighar.org to obtain permission to use a pseudonym.

The following points are exhortations, not law.  They are written on recycled electrons and can be revised as the Forum matures.  There are exceptions to every rule (except the rule that there are exceptions to every rule, of course); these are ideals to strive for, even if no one of us reaches them consistently.


The Prime Directive

"Rules" of Evidence


General etiquette.


Please help us improve these guidelines.


If you know of already-developed sets of guidelines from which we could borrow (with proper references, of course), please provide a link to them (http://tighar.org/smf/index.php/topic,127.0.html) or a citation that would help us find them in a library.
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Chris Johnson on May 20, 2011, 07:16:20 AM
One thing that springs to mind is that as an 'International' Forum we need to be aware that some posters may only have English as a second language and only a few have the Queen ’s English as their first.

Also from a personal point and I’m glad to see it hasn't reared its ugly head but some forum users may have conditions that mean they make genuine spelling and grammatical mistakes.  I know because I am one of them.  Please be aware and not be too pedantic over minor spelling/grammatical errors.  Nine times out of ten I will compose in word, spell check and post but sometimes not :)

Before checking this post had nine errors that needed correcting.
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Martin X. Moleski, SJ on May 20, 2011, 07:49:15 AM
... Please be aware and not be too pedantic over minor spelling/grammatical errors. ...

Added. Thanks!
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Martin X. Moleski, SJ on May 20, 2011, 08:01:36 AM
... the forum should be plenty of fun, but within reasonable bounds because it must also be about the serious business of TIGHAR's work.

Added.  Thanks!

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I also like the guideline material you are putting into the forum for us to be educated by.  That might seem tedious at first - but the idea of having a resource by which we can polish our posting skills is really nice.  There is an academic standard for papers and such - and why not strive toward that kind of discipline here?  This is a serious academic site, really, and we deserve to treat each other with with some degree of academic respect if we truly seek to add to the knowledge, or to gain real knowledge.  Excellent!

The Forum is a one-room schoolhouse.  We have all grades represented here, from kindergarten to post-doctoral researchers.  Much of the material is not rocket science or brain surgery, but we have some rocket scientists and brain surgeons in the mix. 

I don't want to scare anyone away.  I have only realized in the last month or two that I have standards and expectations that were unexpressed and that were being violated--unintentionally and understandably!--by other posters.  The Great Link Jihad (http://tighar.org/smf/index.php/topic,127.0.html) drove at least one poster away from the Forum and may have frightened off others.

Putting some of our expectations of each other into writing might help improve participation in the Forum.  This is something on the order of a social experiment.  (It's not a real experiment, of course, because we don't have defined and controlled variables.)  I'm interested to hear what people think in this thread.  I hope it will help keep such meta-discussions out of other threads.  TIGHAR provides this forum to discuss various topics related to historic aircraft recovery.  Discussion of how to discuss politely is, from that standpoint, off-topic in the boards that deal with aviation history.

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Thanks for the thoughtful topic and emerging guidelines!

My pleasure!   :)
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Martin X. Moleski, SJ on May 20, 2011, 08:37:59 AM
In one of the recent threads, Ric Gillespie asked a poster to provide his full name because this is not an anonymous forum.

I had not been enforcing this policy, but it makes sense to me, now that I think about it.

I've changed my username in accordance with this policy and respectfully request others to do the same.

Here is a tutorial on how to change your User Profile. (http://tighar.org/smf/index.php/topic,379.msg3950.html#msg3950)
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Mona Kendrick on May 20, 2011, 11:06:45 AM
Thanks Marty, for an excellent and thoughtful set of guidelines.  If I think of any suggestions for additional guidelines, I'll make my suggestions in a civil manner.  ;)

--Mona
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Chris Owens on May 20, 2011, 11:56:16 AM
There is, I think, one principle that is particularly worth keeping in mind:

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You are not typing into a computer system; you are communicating with real people in a way that is very public and that is preserved for posterity.

Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: John Joseph Barrett on May 20, 2011, 12:38:28 PM
Ah, If only everyone who posted to the internet would and could remember that. Once it's out there, it's out there. No recall, no Mulligans. Love the guidelines Marty. I seldom post but do follow the forum nearly every day (even when it's slow) and don't much care for it when people get snotty. We all have our own ideas and thoughts that influence how we view what may have happened to our heroes. We all come from different educational, social, economic, etc backgrounds which affects how we view things. But, any one of us may have a "eureka" moment that answers a question for the rest of us. Cordial disagreement is fine and is to be expected. It's the petty stuff and condescending tones we need to avoid. Makes me feel like I'm at work. This is supposed to be fun. Let's keep it that way. And now back to my regularily scheduled Friday....LTM
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Ashley Such on May 20, 2011, 01:18:00 PM
Marty,

The guidelines look good! Thanks for putting those up! And, I agree to abide by these rules. :)
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Martin X. Moleski, SJ on May 20, 2011, 08:10:55 PM
There is, I think, one principle that is particularly worth keeping in mind:

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You are not typing into a computer system; you are communicating with real people in a way that is very public and that is preserved for posterity.

Added.  Thanks!
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Chris Johnson on May 21, 2011, 04:08:21 AM
A quick check on other forums that I am active on and none of them have such a useful guide as this available to members and non-members.

Yes they have a set of 'rules' that you agree to when becoming a member (don't read and tick the box) but there is no aid memoire to remind us on how to behave and enjoy the experience.

Looking at one forum, the intolerant behaviour of some members has always made me a watcher rather than a doer.

This guideline is less 'Link Jihad' and more a life skills manual.

2 errors prior to spell check and preview spots another  :-[
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Chris Johnson on June 21, 2011, 04:57:23 AM
Just a thought but after the recent navigation war it seems appropriate to put any professional credentials up front.  A search on the net (excluding TIGHAR hits) does indicate that some forum members are what/who they say they are.
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Martin X. Moleski, SJ on June 21, 2011, 06:52:28 AM
Just a thought but after the recent navigation war it seems appropriate to put any professional credentials up front.  A search on the net (excluding TIGHAR hits) does indicate that some forum members are what/who they say they are.

For the moment, I'm content with leaving that to the good taste and discretion of Forum members.

Aristotle noted that argument from authority is the weakest form of argument.

Argument from one's own authority must be the weakest form of the argument of authority.

Holding credentials from a school does not make one's presumptions, opinions, judgments, or calculations infallible.

Don't ask me how I know.   :D
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Michael Frazier on July 04, 2011, 03:12:21 PM
Marty,

I'm a newsgroup user since the days of dialing-in via 14.4 modems,
so I'm a little experienced in this area. You have asked for some
input so I'd like to share a few thoughts. I frequently visit your
site and never came across anything really annoying. The guidelines
and policies in question are more or less what's commonly accepted
on usenet. Of course re-thinking can't do any harm but I don't feel
like this forum needs anything more elaborate. On the other hand
you may have good reasons for this.

IMHO if you want to enhance quality all together - and what else are
we talking about - there's no way around a moderated forum. Reading
the possible postings in advance is equal in time and effort compared
to reading it later but there is a big difference in rejecting a posting a priori
or to ban someone after the event. I'm aware in the end it's a matter
of taste how to conduct a forum and we could easily discuss the pros
and cons for weeks, but why waiting 'til the damage is done when one
has control? A possible posting to the TIGHAR forum doesn't require
immediate action and there is no need for any realtime performance.

A 'troll' is merely annoying but I've seen serious but non-moderated
newsgroups going nuts on silly threads beyond belief, which is a real
menace. We are all human and none of us is free from emotions. Many
professional newsgroups are moderated to prevent this and keep it
strictly on-topic. I consider this very adequate.

A moderated forum doesn't necessarily mean preventing discussion
unless the possible posting is completely off-topic. The moderator of
course isn't forced to overact in this regard. Talking to others by means
of a forum can be an interesting thing even on a non-expert level.
Lateral thinking and asking the right questions is quite as important as
giving the right answers. In my experience a moderated forum doesn't
constrict this.

Regards,
Michael
Title: Re: How to play nice and fight fair--guidelines for civil discourse
Post by: Martin X. Moleski, SJ on July 04, 2011, 10:13:57 PM
I'm a newsgroup user since the days of dialing-in via 14.4 modems,
so I'm a little experienced in this area.

I started as a participant and later a sysop on a 1200 baud modem back
in the mid-80s.  (I am a time traveler; I come to you from the past!)

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You have asked for some
input so I'd like to share a few thoughts. I frequently visit your
site and never came across anything really annoying.

Me, neither.  The vast majority of posts are on topic and the vast majority of posters have been courteous and welcome guests.

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The guidelines
and policies in question are more or less what's commonly accepted
on usenet. Of course re-thinking can't do any harm but I don't feel
like this forum needs anything more elaborate. On the other hand
you may have good reasons for this.

Up until I started this thread, we were doing OK with no guidelines in writing (at least according to my taste; YMMV).  As I started removing posts that I thought crossed the line, I thought it might be good to mark some of the lines that people shouldn't cross a little better than they had been in the past.  "Ignorance of the law is no excuse"--if the laws have been published somewhere where the interested parties can find them.   ::)

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IMHO if you want to enhance quality all together - and what else are
we talking about - there's no way around a moderated forum. Reading
the possible postings in advance is equal in time and effort compared
to reading it later but there is a big difference in rejecting a posting a priori
or to ban someone after the event. I'm aware in the end it's a matter
of taste how to conduct a forum and we could easily discuss the pros
and cons for weeks, but why waiting 'til the damage is done when one
has control? A possible posting to the TIGHAR forum doesn't require
immediate action and there is no need for any realtime performance.

I've been a Usenet moderator since 1998, served on the Board for the Big-8 (http://www.big-8.org/) since its inception, and acted as co-chair for the Board for a couple of years or so.  My experience has been that unmoderated groups are generally more lively than moderated groups, even when the moderation is quite light and eminently reasonable.  I prefer the problems of retro-moderation to pre-moderation.

I am only one member of the moderation team.  I serve at the discretion of TIGHAR's executive officers, so it's possible that they will want to take your advice.

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A 'troll' is merely annoying but I've seen serious but non-moderated
newsgroups going nuts on silly threads beyond belief, which is a real
menace. We are all human and none of us is free from emotions. Many
professional newsgroups are moderated to prevent this and keep it
strictly on-topic. I consider this very adequate.

Understood.  We can tighten up if we have to.  In my view, we're not there yet.

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A moderated forum doesn't necessarily mean preventing discussion
unless the possible posting is completely off-topic. The moderator of
course isn't forced to overact in this regard. Talking to others by means
of a forum can be an interesting thing even on a non-expert level.
Lateral thinking and asking the right questions is quite as important as
giving the right answers. In my experience a moderated forum doesn't
constrict this.

I've helped to set up lots of moderated Usenet groups, so I know how they can bring a great deal of relief from people whose tastes in dialogue run counter to my own.  I was opposed to the creation of news.groups.proposals (http://www.big-8.org/wiki/News.groups.proposals_FAQ), but I was wrong.  The group has worked as you describe above--posts are pre-moderated and good discussions have taken place.  Moderation can definitely work.

Thanks very much for your thoughtful feedback--much appreciated!